have
a heart
meaning
make room
in your life
for compassion
care
empathize
befriend
understand
have a heart
most of this life journey
has involved
lessons of the heart
with heavy
emphasis on others
love your neighbor
and even your enemy
sunday school lessons
lodged forever in my
being
have guided my
life choices
i learned how to care
about others
even for my bullies
don't get on the same level as the bully
don't respond
think about their words
their actions
they are most likely hurting and afraid
that is the usual make up of a bully
the typical reason for
the bullying
love your neighbor
even your enemy
and i did
for the most part
i mean
for GOD's
sake
i'm only human
i didn't love perfectly
i haven't loved perfectly
but i can
honestly say
i loved others
had compassion
and concern for others
while learning very little
about
self
care
and what it means
to love
myself
slow down!
really....
slow
down!
don't jump to
conclusions or extremes...
i'm not talking about
inflated ego
self indulgent
navel gazing
over glorification
of my own needs
and existence
over and above
the needs and existence
of everyone else
i'm talking about
the simplest level of
care for
myself
the basics of self
respect
seems i
didn't learn
that lesson well
perhaps the fact
that there weren't many people
around to teach the lesson
means a boat
load of other's didn't
and haven't learned
how to care for themselves
in the simplest level of
caring and loving
either
so it's no surprise
i heard this message again:
"you need to guard your heart"
yes,
i've heard that i need to
guard my heart
i know i need to do this
only thing
i don't know how!
"tell me
how!"
and he did:
"you don't own the words
of the other
remember the bully?
remember his words?
those words never belonged to you
they belonged to him
you should have never taken
those words into your heart
you don't own the words
spoken to you today either
guard your heart
let the one who spoke those words
own their words
you can care for them
and let them own their words
at the same time
you can also tell them
to stop it
guard your heart
have compassion for the other
offer your heart
but
also have compassion for yourself
and guard your heart
when the circumstances arise"
i've been careless
it seems
i'm learning to be more
care
full.
No comments:
Post a Comment